Category: Reflecting

Pain Diary #4

on keeping your hands to yourself Don’t shake hands during an epidemic, we are told,and I am begging you not to ever shake my hand. Like so many thingsforced with the best of intentions on […]

Pain Diary #3

on broken hearts and bad hips Your country will break your heart again.It will break your heart like a bad boyfriend,like the liberal feminist boyfriendwho has hated every female boss he has ever had, like […]

Pain Diary #2

on the fear that kills My friend died because he thought he would be firedif he admitted he was deathly sick.He died of cancer,but he died faster of fear, stress, overwhelm,and the isolation of believing […]

Pain Diary #1

on asking for help in all the wrong places Once I told a doctor my shoulder hurt.He said maybe the pain came from my wristbecause what did I know?He sent me for a test on […]

The Importance of Being Lazy

…but not too lazy. A few days ago I had a long day. I was on the road a good bit of the day, driving in bad weather, and I also spent time lifting items […]

Stress and RA

I’ve always known that stress played a large role in my rheumatoid arthritis. I’ve been frustrated in my efforts to find doctors who would listen to what I had to say about this or address […]

My Illness/Wellness Journey

Disclaimer #1: Everyone’s journey is their own. What works for me may not work for someone else. Disclaimer #2: I credit natural approaches to helping me feel better, but I am under the care of […]

The Just One Thing Philosophy Club

This is a trunk full of clothes that I am going to haul off to a thrift store tomorrow. The car is a rental, so I’ve forced myself into action by putting the clothes in […]

Core Story:  #reverb10 Day 31

Today’s prompt: What central story is at the core of you, and how do you share it with the world? You see that tree over there? One of these days I’m going to climb that […]

Gift:  #reverb10 Day 30

Today’s prompt: This month, gifts and gift-giving can seem inescapable. What’s the most memorable gift, tangible or emotional, you received this year? Here she is. Baby Girl (my grandniece) was born the day before my […]